A little boy after unexplained infertility
Why do you want to share your story?
I want to share our story to help others know they are not alone and it can get better. There are for sure dark days and it’s okay to get down, but it’s so important to keep the end in sight. By hearing other people share their experiences it makes you feel less isolated. When you hear people have success going down the same path you did, it makes it seem possible and worth it for you!
What led you to Fertility Centers of Illinois?
My OBGYN recommended FCI and we really liked everyone we worked with. I was first afraid of the size of the practice but it was not a problem. I went in so much that I got to know everyone who works there and they greet me by name. The staff at the Highland Park office is wonderful and they help make the whole process that much easier. The doctors have worked with us to come up with a plan we agree with and understand.
We had been diagnosed with unexplained infertility, which was very frustrating. After more time and other symptoms, both my OBGYN and FCI doctors believe I have endometriosis.
How would you describe your experience with your physician?
Our first doctor was great to work with when we had our son. We are now working with Dr. Rodgers to have our second child. She is very personable and knowledgeable. I really liked how they both understood what we were going through and could share their infertility journeys.
What helped you get through treatment?
My husband and both our families were a huge source of support. My husband gave me all of my shots and was there for everything. I also found keeping a positive attitude was a huge help. There are lots of ups and downs in infertility and it can be hard not to get down. But the more I was able to keep a positive attitude and find the silver linings, the better I felt. I also tried to keep my sense of humor throughout the whole process.
Do you have any words of hope for others?
There is no doubt the infertility journey is frustrating and difficult. It is so hard to open social media and see another friend is pregnant. You are happy for them but can’t understand why it can’t be you. Don’t let it get you down! There are so many ways that you can become parent, you are just taking a harder path. But it makes it so much more exciting when you finally hold your child. You won’t remember everything you went through, just that it is so worth it. Don’t give up and keep that positive attitude!
Tell us about your little miracle!
Conor was born five weeks early. Luckily he didn’t have any big complications and was only in the NICU for a week. He was well worth every shot, procedure and tear. He is full of energy and always moving. Conor is a big talker and it has been so much fun to see his personality come out. He is a ball of positivity and happiness and brings us such joy! I am now pregnant with baby number two.
